Just like you, my family strives for that perfect Christmas moment.

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We aim for that Norman Rockwell picture, the memory that is just right and will last forever. We want to create that moment for our children and ourselves when we are in the center of magic, that moment where everyone is happy and everything looks just right.

Decorating the Christmas tree is the day when we try our hardest for some reason. My wife Erica has tried it all, the professional photographer, the matching outfits, new tree decorations, multiple trees and Christmas music.

She's busted out all of the tricks and every year we fall short in some regard. The kids fight over ornaments, dad has too much eggnog and the moment we'd hoped for, simply falls apart. We aim, we strive, and we fail because perfection is unattainable.

Maybe someone gets bored and sticks a beach ball in their shirt and takes a nap on the couch.

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Maybe Dad says F--- it, breaks out the laptop and logs into work.

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Maybe the kids get tired of it and grab their tablet to play.

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Or you get it all just right, but your surroundings are not so magical. Maybe you just had a water problem that ate a hole through your ceiling right above the tree.

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Why do we even bother? Why can't we be like those families on Instagram that get it right? Why can't we create a picture perfect moment? It's because, it's not real, the people that "get it right" only show you what they want you to see.

Their kids fight too, they argue over what song to play and their dad loses it too. There is no perfect moment, there are just attempts.

Trying for that family memory is worthwhile and whatever comes of it, is the memory you are supposed to have. We had a hole in the ceiling, I worked, Vida gave up, Lucas was bored before we even started and Erica ended up doing most of the tree by herself but we were together.

We had a few laughs, we made a memory and it was a memory that was perfect for us. Next year we will try again and next year, we will likely fall short of what we hoped but we will do it as a unit.

As I get older, I'm less interested in what things are supposed to be, and way more grateful for what they are. Erica says we are a hot mess, I'm down with our mess over any alternative.

P.S. Lucas made me laugh so hard, I didn't notice him sitting like that until I started working and I managed to keep my laughter to a low roar so I could capture that photo without him noticing.

Insanely Difficult Mini Golf Hole in Brookfield Destroys All Who Dare to Face It

JJ Stacks in Brookfield bills itself as the perfect summer food and entertainment family destination. The restaurant located at 537 Federal Road in Brookfield has a bit of everything from burgers, dogs and fries to adult beverages. They also have a slogan that goes "JJ Stacks, where family fun is a hole in one." 

Man Does Death Defying Motorcycle Tricks in New Milford Parking Lot

The parking lot of Max BMW in New Milford, CT became the scene of a motorcycle trick show recently. 

You Know You're from Putnam Lake, NY If...

Putnam Lake is a Hamlet of the Town of Patterson, NY. "The Lake" was, and continues to be a great place to raise a family but it most certainly is not boring. People from surrounding communities have a lot to say about "Lakers", they just don't do it to your face.

Putnam Lake has a personality all it's own. "The Lake" is loaded with great people with wonderful personalities that all seem to have a few things in common. This is why it will be easy for those of you who lived there, to identify with the "You Know You're From Putnam Lake If.....Examples. 

Hat City Group Selects 10 of The Best Breakfast Sandwiches-Delis in Danbury Area

If you consider yourself a breakfast sandwich connoisseur, you know that a bad one will really upset you, so getting the right deli or breakfast spot is what matters most. Most breakfast sandwich extremists know exactly where they are going when they are hungry in the morning and they have their favorite spot. They'll travel out of there way to get there if necessary and it will be worth every extra second.

Maybe you don't have a favorite, or your preference isn't in business anymore, maybe you are new to the Danbury area and if so, you came to the right place. I found a pretty comprehensive list of some of the Danbury areas best places for a breakfast sandwich and It just happened to be on the Danbury, CT Reddit page.

If you are looking to have someone blow smoke up your a--, there are plenty of websites where you can get that. If you want honest, harsh and critical reviews, go to Reddit. If you find a positive review on Reddit, it's because the place they are recommending is very good at what they do.

Someone just like you (u/JansportStrings) was is search of breakfast on Sunday and posted: "Best Breakfast Sandwiches/Delis in the Area?" Below are the delis/eateries they selected.