Would you rather your ex dated someone more or less attractive than you?

We are going to talk about this tomorrow on the show.  I had one of the sales staff come into the studio this morning and pose this question and I thought it was interesting.  A case could be made for both.  On the one hand you would like to think of yourself as attractive so if they date someone who is very attractive after you then their standards are high and you were at one point a part of that.  On the other hand you don't want to feel like they upgraded from you.  I would like to think I could be part of the first group.  It says something about you that you could let them move onto someone more attractive and you can still take something positive from it but the truth is I'm part of the second group.  You want to feel like they have taken a physical step back at the least.  In all likelihood this person probably has qualities that you lack to begin with.  In most cases after a breakup people seek out certain characteristics that there last significant other did not have.  We all know that and it makes sense.  But you would hate to think they are better looking too.  Call the show tomorrow:  203-775-9595

 

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