Top 10 Secrets of Couples Who Stay Together Forever [PHOTOS]

Each of us brings certain characteristics and personality traits to the relationship. If you're spending years trying to change your partner into the preconceived mold you've imagined, do yourself, and that person a favor, and let them go. Unconditional means "without conditions or limitations."

If someone tells you their marriage is perfect and they never fight, they're either lying or their marriage is in trouble. Every couple fights or disagrees or argues. Whatever you choose to call it, it's healthy to talk it out or even sometimes shout it out. This is how you work it out but there are a couple of rules, never make it personal and never call each other demeaning names. I bet you didn't know I was an armchair therapist.

Having your own hobbies and friends within the framework of a relationship is normal and healthy but there are certain social settings like a family function or maybe a corporate holiday party where your partner will want you along for support and/or "they just want to be with you." Don't bitch and moan, just smile and take one for the team.

The surprise purchases don't need to be a $5,000 necklace unless you have money to burn. My wife, Mindy, loves a little sugar hit mid evening, so I'll stop and buy her a bag of Peanut M&M's just because I know she loves it.

My wife loves to be around people. She has several groups of friends each unique unto their own. She's wise enough to understand "who" is not going to mix with "who." There's nothing more awkward when you're out with your "goofy" friends and you've invited a couple of intense serious friends. Now you've got a situation where everyone's giving you "that" look!......awkward!

This is one that happens to Mindy and I all the time. Her job as an RN, Nurse Case Manager can come with a boatload of stress. My job of "talking on the radio" is much less stressful. I just take it upon myself to pick up the slack by cleaning the kitchen and picking up around the house. I have the time and it's just the right thing to do and she appreciates it.

Yeah, this is the one I have some trouble with. I guess you could call me "spontaneously challenged." I'm comfortable with planning what's in store. I like my routines. Every once in awhile I'll step out of my comfort zone and do something zany, like ahhhh, I can't think of something right now but I'm pretty sure I'll remember something eventually.

The big reason you've been together for so many years is because you LOVE each other! Just say it!..... at least once a day

Some valuable advice I've always given to new parents, whether they've asked for it or not, is to make time for just the two of you even after the baby arrives. Sure the baby is now the center of your universe but that "universe" originated with the two of you. Stay connected by going out on a date with each other....no babies allowed.

I know, I know, easier said than done especially if his/her family are wack-a-doos. They still love to know you think of them as family. Call or text from time to time or even hang out with them even if your significant other isn't around. I dare ya!