The last text message you wrote was what?  Would you want it on your tombstone?

Mine was actually "I miss you."  That is something I would be OK with but the fact is that cannot be said for most of my texts.  A lot of my texts are crude and sexual or just downright stupid.  A lot of them are apologies.  I don't even know how I managed to pull off a nice text.

The whole tombstone thing has baffled me for a long time.  For some reason it really matters to me what is on there.  I've said many times over the years what I want on there and changed my mind.  I want it to matter.

There is even a saying dedicated to the tombstone.  "It's not etched in stone."  That means I cannot be the only one that places importance on this.