Getting Married is Exhausting No Matter How You Do It

We got married ... Erica and I in the most simple of ways, but our families want to be involved and that is great. So, we decided to throw a party, which has become a wedding slash project.  List of responsibilities include:

• Picking a date when essential personnel can be present...i.e.  family from out of town, DJ, caterer...blah...blah...blah..
• Making a guest list....good luck to me with my mother.
• Finding people's addresses for invites....holy cow man.
•  Watching my wife do most of the work and feeling lazy....not fun....because then I get up off my ass and start doing things.
• Watching Erica comb through dresses online and try and figure out an outfit for me.
• Securing a venue...which we did....not without borrowing money which you never get used to although at this point I should be.
• Fighting with people that did not like that we eloped....no one that matters of course and now we say bye bye to them till the end of time.
• Most important is trying to make three little boys wrap their heads around the idea that we are a family now.  We are a broke ass Brady Bunch that loves each other.

I've done crazy things in my life.  This is easily viewed as the craziest I have done from the outside, but the most sane beautiful and responsible thing I have EVER done.  Love you Erica.